More than anything we CRAVE watching attractive people fuck. No, not talking about uber-models, but jesus christ, just any guy who is moderately in shape, not greasy and gross, and any woman who isn't bleach-blonde, fake-titted, and looks like she's been on meth for years!
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
HAHAHAHAHA! Not sure if this is serious or not, but this is freakin' hilarious. Answer is no, but still funny!
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Hey thanks! We try. Hating to sound vanilla, but favorite place to fuck is the bed... as we can drift off comfortably while enjoying the orgasm after-glow. Nothing beats the after-sex nap. Nothing.
Rich and creamy, my man!
No. I bare it all.
Great question. Look for future post.
Will it still work? PS: no man's penis is completely straight; all have some degree of curve. Some more than others.
Monday, September 6, 2010
Have a little patience. We are real people with real lives and obligations. As soon as we have time alone we plan on taking care of business.
I wrote about this a little while ago. Cane's fantasy has become my own. The idea of him giving me to someone else and watching me get fucked and violated. I feel powerless and utterly turned on.
More like we get funny looks and stifled giggles from a few neighbors. I don't blame them. The way I scream, I'd be thinking about it when I saw me on the street, too.
Would you have sex on the first date? The first time you have sex with a special someone, do you think it should be rough or slow and romantic?
I don't really think there is a way to generalize an answer to this question. I was never typically the girl to have sex on the first date, but a lot of that was based on my upbringing and being conditioned to think that this would always be perceived as "undesirable" by men who were relationship material. However, when I met Cane we basically fell into bed before we even went on our first official date. I was drawn to him and we sparked so hard that I wasn't the least bit concerned about him judging me for it. I just knew I wanted him and had to have him. We've been together for years now. So obviously he wasn't the kind of guy to judge me for sleeping with him right away. It may not always be the smartest thing to do, but I don't think it is wrong. I always need to feel a mental attraction and connection with someone to get physical (I was never good at random hook ups--I have to feel interest and respect for you to want to fuck you) so that has typically hindered me on first dates in the past.
As for how first time sex should be ... I don't think that has a specific standard either. I love rough sex. I love romantic and slow sex. And sex that blends a little of both is always super satisfying. Chemistry is chemistry and you feel it whether the sex is rough or slow.
What advice would you give a guy whose special someone does not like being adventurous while he does?
Oh my. That's always a tough one. I'm a firm believer that being in a relationship REQUIRES clear and honest communication as well as a determination to listen and truly hear what your partner's needs are. My advice is to be very candid with your partner about your desires and interests. Be sensitive to the fact that she may not share many of your interests, but you may also wind up surprised to hear that she shares a few. Cane thought he was going to disgust me by sharing some of his ... but instead he was met with not only compassion, but a confession of some shared desires. Your partner should care about you and no judge you. It's one thing if they decline to participate in certain acts, but it's another if they make you feel ashamed. No loving partner should ever do that. It's your job to reassure your partner that the vanilla sex you have is also still lovely--because people often hear of darker interests and foolishly assume this means the vanilla stuff isn't any good to you. If you put your needs out there, a partner SHOULD care about them. They may not be able to give you all of it, but they should at least allow you to be yourself in talking about it. Once the door is opened, you may be pleasantly surprised to see how easily your partner walks through it with you. Women especially suffer from being seen as "pure" or "too good" for certain things. But a lot of us are secretly dying to be treated like a nasty little slut in the bedroom.
Cane and I have discussed a MFM threesome. Neither of us have done this as of yet.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
If it has our secretiveslut banner on it ... then it's either me or Cane.
How do I get invited to blogs that say you need to invited to? I feel like they have the sexiest pictures of all (excluding you of course).
I've often wondered the same thing. I assume the only real way is to create your own blog, make it interesting & hope they find you and invite you to join theirs.
Is it difficult taking pictures of yourself during sex? If I were having sex, I would get rather mad stopping in the middle of it to take a picture.
It requires determination, a sense of humor and patience. But it's also really hot to watch your partner get turned on in the process. The sex is fun ... and the sex you have afterwards when you're looking at the hot photo is even better.
Is the picture in your profile of you? What are you doing? It looks like you are taking off your panties which is making me really horny.
Yes, it's me. It's a naughty photo that I sent to Cane when we first were seeing one another. I believe I had just flung my panties at the camera.
Friday, September 3, 2010
You don't have to be sorry for not posting often. I am just thankful that you do. Do you follow any other blogs? If so, which ones?
You're kind :) We do follow some other blogs. Some of my favorites (for imagery) are ponyxpress.wordpress.com/ and http://syntheticpubes.com/.
Next to your profile pic, the second line of the url of your blog reads gspot.com. Isn't that amusing? Did you do that on purpose? When did you lose your virginity?
I had nothing to do with the wit of my URL. I lost my virginity at age 21. Well after most of my girlfriends. There's an entry all about it on the blog.
Ok, well I have a panty fetish so could you submit a picture where you move your underwear out of the way so your pussy is showing or when you are being fucked by Cane while you are wearing underwear or even just a picture of you in an underwear.
Oh, nice! I get soooo turned on at the idea that a man doesn't have the patience to remove my panties ... and roughly shoves them aside and fucks me while they're still on my body. LOVE IT. I can promise such images are in the near future.
If I were to meet you without knowing anything about your blog, how would I describe your personality?
Hmmmmm ... well, I'm feisty without being difficult, I'm passionate without being overdramatic, I'm creative but oddly disciplined, spiritual without being "religious" and generous with both words and actions. I don't take myself too seriously, have a dark sense of humor, possess a bleeding heart and struggle with trying to take care of things all on my own without asking for any help or support.
Not trying to be difficult. Just not willing to disclose certain kinds of details about myself. My major would be one of them. But yes, I did go to college.
You can simply reply or comment on one of our entries (I suggest more recent entries since we're more likely to actually SEE it) or go to our profile and email us at the address listed there. Or you can even submit a picture request through formspring.
You should try being naked in public. First try a nude beach and if you feel comfortable then go even further. Might I suggest going to a European country where public nudity is more acceptable (France, Spain, Catalonia (specifically Barcelona))
My exhibitionism (or OUR exhibitionistic tendencies) tends towards getting off on being seen in sexual situations. It has zero to do with being gratified by being nude and far more to do with having an audience while being defiled.
Hilarious. I'm afraid we won't be meeting strangers through our blog for the potential threesome. But we promise to post pictures and share the experience with you all.
Sorry ... I'm a 10 inch and above girl. No, seriously ... this is the best temptation you can offer? We're harder to impress than that.
You're kidding, right? Do I really have to point out that this BLOG is how I am living out my exhibitionist fantasies?
Thursday, September 2, 2010
I have read Jezabell's post telling how her faith as an adolescent effected her in her youth, and probably still into adulthood. I was wondering how does Cane feel about your faith, and what have been his experiences? Do either of you experience any gu
Cane was raised by parents who let him choose for himself. He's one of the most amazingly unbiased, open and nonjudgemental people I've ever met. I adore him for it. I'm still a believer ... I just don't subscribe to the conditional and human-mangled rhetoric spewed by many so-called Christians. And I don't think sex is something you have to be ashamed of ... though I think at times Cane is the one who has struggled more to see me as willingly dirtied. Before this blog, he had me on a Mother Teresa pedestal. He's since made sure I was defiled beyond worthiness of such heights.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Friday, August 20, 2010
You don't read our blog, do you?
Quite the contradiction that we have exhibitionist fantasies, yet have never dared to fuck in a public place. I don't think we will either-- we're after a controlled exhibitionist thrill... not one that could land us in the back of a police car.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
To be honest, Cane isn't riddled with hair there. Or else I've been to turned on to notice. My attitude is as long as it's clean, I am not offended by a little hair. A mouthful might be another story.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
I imagine, just as our lives have constant cycles.... big, large, small, and tiny... those cycles trickle down into the bedroom as well. We’re not concerned about it just yet, but it just sucks being dead-fucking tired, day in and day out... so much so the idea of exerting one more ounce of energy doing ANYTHING after getting home from a retardedly long day(s) seems like an unmountable task (pun intended). And we don’t even have kids. I don’t know how parents do it, I really don’t.
So yes, I’ve got a new job at a new firm... but they threw me in the deep end, and I’ve been treading water for weeks now. Meanwhile, Cane is at his wits end, professionally and emotionally, at his current job... but feels trapped. Corporate America really does blow. It looks fun on TV, because everything looks contemporary and is lit-well, and everyone’s really young and attractive and dresses sharp... so NOT what it’s really like.
What all this is, is really one giant excuse as to why we’ve been absentee bloggers lately-- and for too long now. So, we’re going to make it up to you, BIG TIME... and best of all, it’s interactive!
Here’s the deal: we’re now open for PICTURE REQUESTS. Please email us with absolutely anything you want to see-- of, on, in, or about either Cane or myself... together or solo...nothing is off-limits except anything that’s done in the bathroom; not gonna judge... but, you know... “ew”.
And please don’t abuse this or be a douche-bag: we’ll sift through the b.s. ones or the ones that don’t seem genuine. Jackasses.
So, we turn it over to YOU, the readers-- now turned art directors (or maybe ‘porn directors’ is more appropriate)!! Our email address in our profile section, under “contact” or leave a comment. Can’t wait to see what you want to see!
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Monday, July 12, 2010
I was worried about how my husband would feel. But he loved every minute of it — he loved it a little too much.
My husband had sex with me after our "guest" left. I still had our guest's semen inside me. Is my husband gay? Is that what cuckolding is all about? He didn't touch the other guy, but what the fuck? — Spouse Expressing Concern Over Newly Disclosed Sexuality
SAVAGE LOVE"Far from being an indication of homosexuality, your husband's turn-on goes back to the roots of male heterosexual experience," says Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality. "Human beings evolved in very intimate groups where sex often involved multiple partners."
Before Ryan walks us through what's so straight about your husband dipping his dick in another man's spunk, SECONDS, let me get this off my chest: Sex at Dawn is the single most important book about human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey unleashed Sexual Behavior in the Human Male on the American public in 1948. Want to understand why men married to supermodels cheat? Why so many marriages are sexless? Why paternity tests often reveal that the "father" isn't? Read Sex at Dawn.
Now back to Ryan:
"Think about it," says Ryan. "Why would women have evolved the capacity for slow-building multiple orgasms while males evolved the orgasmic response of minutemen accompanied by a sudden disappearance of all interest in sex?"
Because — as Ryan and his coauthor Cacilda Jethá lay out in Sex at Dawn — for countless generations, our male and female ancestors, like our closest primate relatives (fuck-mad bonobos), engaged in multipartner sex. Females mated with multiple males, while males — so easily stimulated visually to this day — watched and waited their turn.
"Almost all of us get off on watching other people having sex," says Ryan. "Even if our minds deny it, our bodies respond in many ways, ranging from increased genital blood flow (in both sexes) to stronger male ejaculations."
By inviting another male into your bedroom, SECONDS, your husband — consciously or subconsciously — is inducing what's known as "sperm competition." Watching you have sex with another male made him more excited to have sex with you, not with the other male, and treated him to a more intense orgasm in you, not in the other male.
"So your husband's experience was very heterosexual," says Ryan.
I'll go further: Your husband's experience was the original heterosexual experience.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Monday, June 21, 2010
This is my fantasy. I cannot, morso will not make any apologies for it. I can’t apologize, because it would be like apologizing for the fact that I like mint chocolate-chip ice cream. Or the color blue. Or Jersey Shore. And before you start, YES, it absolutely is the same thing. As far as our personal proclivities, penchants, preferences, predilections, predispositions, partialities, prejudices, and passions go for YOU the individual... you can never, ever make any apologies for what you like and are drawn to, simply because it’s innate. You like what you like and there really doesn’t need-- and a lot of times can’t -- be a deeper explanation.
Sure, I can give cursory reasons: I like the defilement of what ‘should’ be sacred, the humiliation (of possibly him pleasuring her more/better at a psychical level), the sullying of conservatism. I also like the sheer mechanics; the voyeurism-- being right down there watching someone else’s cock pass in and out my Jez’s pussy. I like the idea of Jez-- a traditional, otherwise vanilla girl-- being taken by 2 men at once, fucked and filled simultaneously... the innocent Southern Baptist preacher’s daughter stuffed with two dicks!... polar-opposite of everything she had been raised to be or believe in! I also just like the simple idea of Jez getting to be multiply stimulated by adding another guy in the mix; I want her to feel what that’s like. And I also just like the idea of the lifestyle-- leading alternative sex-lives and practices outside of (american) tradition.
This goes for anyone, anywhere, any time, who has had a fantasy outside of “I want to put my penis in your vagina”. Wanna be fucked dressed up like a clown? Wanna be spanked&whipped? Wanna be gang-banged by four black cocks at once? Wanna put on your wife’s bra and panties and have her fuck you with strap-on? Wanna be a furry? Wanna be raped? Wanna (if you’re a guy) see what another man’s cock tastes like? Want your ass-licked? Wanna be fisted? Wanna be choked, slapped, hit, and told you’re a whore? Wanna spouse-swap? Wanna fuck in front of a room full of strangers? Wanna seduce your best-friend with your husband? Wanna broadcast your vagina on the internet? Wanna fuck with the shades open? Wanna sit under a glass table and watch your partner poop?.....
...ok, that last one is just gross (like, seriously people, really?).... but fuck, if that’s what you like, if ANY of those things and countless others vanilla or non-vanilla sexual acts is just “what you’re into”, you cannot, should not, and most importantly DO NOT have to say you’re sorry, because fantasying-- in essence, thinking-- is not a crime, sin, nor wrong. Don’t forget, we’re talking about FANTASY for the moment, not wanting to act on that fantasy (that will come in a second).
A running theme with this blog is ‘open, honest, and full communication’ between Jez and myself. Now, I’m not here to tell others how to conduct their own personal relationships with their partners.... but it’s pretty hard to find faults in “open and honest”. I can pretty confidentially say sharing your fantasies with your partner, no matter what it is, SHOULD alleviate a lot of repression and open up a dialogue where you can have a healthy discussion about your fantasy and whether or not it is something that your partner would like to help you fulfill. And if not, you can both work together to find/seek alternative means and ways of satisfying your fantasy... and even just talking about it is enough. But you can never have that discussion until you open up to your partner... and your partner be open to you.
As the partner hearing the fantasy, short of “My fantasy is to shoot you in the head with a gun in order to kill you”, it is very important and fair for you to allow your partner to speak their fantasy fully and honestly, and hear them out completely. Create a reassuring atmosphere where they feel safe from snap-judgement, criticism, and most importantly... rejection. It takes courage to broach a fantasy and that needs to be respected. You screwing-up your face and saying, “Jesus Christ, how could you want that!” is only going to cause your partner to retract and hinder any future sexual communication with you, perhaps indefinitely... and that’s almost surely going to lead to problems. Rejecting your partner’s fantasy outright and refusing or being reluctant to an open dialogue about it, sooner or later, will result in your partner seeking to fulfill that fantasy elsewhere. How will they do that? Dunno. Does that mean they’re going to cheat on you? Dunno. Will they resent you? Dunno. But I can say, at some level, they are going to feel ashamed... and why would you want to make your partner ever feel that way?
Your partner’s fantasy may actually hurt you emotionally-- which, if that’s the case, will probably be your snap-reaction. I understand that and you have a right to be hurt, but this is where a continued open/ongoing discussion of the fantasy may help educate you and begin to understand your partner’s desires to a point you will be less hurt, if not alleviated completely. Just remember, you cannot blame them just for simply having the fantasy, no matter what it is.
However, while the person with the fantasy should not feel they must justify or explain what simply may just be apart of their sexuality.... as the one with the fantasy, refusing to try to help your partner understand, at least the cursory reasons, isn’t going to help much in the department of communication, either. It’s a delicate dance, where both partners have to work together in order to move forward as one (oooh, nice analogy!). So, if you really have a desire to put a chomp-bit in your partner’s mouth and ride them around like a horse... maybe start with why Equus (*not sure what that play is really called) appeals to you so much, at least on the surface.
Now, just as you are entitled to have a fantasy about absolutely anything and be free of shame and rejection.... your partner is entitled NOT to share an interest in that fantasy, nor should ever be made to feel obligated, guilted, or forced into allowing or performing the realization of your fantasy-- this needs to be met with acceptance from your end, without shame or rejection as well. And don’t you dare pull that, “If you love me, you’ll do this for me” bullshit. Seriously dude, that’s fucking weak.
However, just because you may not share an interest, want, or desire in your partner’s fantasy doesn’t mean their fantasy is going to suddenly “go away” in their mind. This is where open communication between y’all is especially paramount. Setting up or creating an alternative outlet for their fantasy is something I strongly recommend. However, if you absolutely cannot bring yourself to abide their fantasy whatsoever, in any facet, alternative or otherwise... than the very least you need to say is some form of the following:
“Honey, I love you very much and I’m so grateful you were able to feel comfortable enough to share your fantasy about watching me poop on a glass table. I know it took a lot for you to share this with me and again, I love you for that. But, I don’t feel this is something I can give to you or share with you in any way, at least in the near future. I want you to continue to have your fantasy and I want to continue to be here to love and support you. But for right now, we have to leave it at that.”
Now, chances are, whatever your partner’s fantasy is, you’re either going to be down with it, willing to try/experiment, or at least be able to work together to come up with an alternative that will simulate or come close enough for your partner to be satisfied, while respecting your right to not be obligated to perform said fantasy to the absolute ‘T’. In any event, you need to be 100% supportive and open to at first listening to your partner’s fantasy, regardless of what it is. Unless it’s having sex with children. Then call the cops. Joking, but it would be wise to encourage them to seek professional counseling. Wow, this just got all dark and serious.
As far as my cuckold/hotwife/MMF threesome fantasy with Jez... I couldn’t have a more perfect, loving, and accepting partner. My fantasy was broached almost within the first month we even KNEW each other. While we’ve lead arguably mostly vanilla, yet completely satisfying sex lives, this fantasy of mine has always been underlying throughout; and while Jez has admitted she had at first been hurt by the fact I’d want to share her, never once did she make me feel faulted for having the fantasy; I can never say she made it something I’ve had to repress, nor had it been something Jez refused to hear-out. Per prior entires, you can track our transparent, open, honest, and educational discussions about it, as well as whether or not we’re actually going to take it to the next level. The fantasy so far has evolved into red-hot IM sessions, dirty talk in bed, and even experimenting via simulations.
So, ARE we actually going to do it? That’s still to be determined...but what I can say for certain is that I already have had one fantasy come true... and she’s better than I ever could’ve dreamed.
PS: If you don’t get the cinematic nod in the title of this entry, then you are entirely too young and we despise your youth!