What's better: slow passtionate romantic sex or thrown down, bent over, ripped clothes rough sex?

You don't read our blog, do you?
http://thesecretiveslut.blogspot.com/2010/06/getting-honest-getting-dirty.html

What do you want to know?

Have you ever played with hot wax during sex?

Cane's a pussy. And I have an irrational fear of candles. Don't ask.

What do you want to know?

What is the most public place you've ever had sex?

Quite the contradiction that we have exhibitionist fantasies, yet have never dared to fuck in a public place. I don't think we will either-- we're after a controlled exhibitionist thrill... not one that could land us in the back of a police car.

What do you want to know?

Have you ever tried fisting or double vaginal sex, like maybe with a dildo or vibrator and Cane's cock at the same time?

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How do you guys deal with hair around the uh...anal opening when you rim Cane Jezebel?

To be honest, Cane isn't riddled with hair there. Or else I've been to turned on to notice. My attitude is as long as it's clean, I am not offended by a little hair. A mouthful might be another story.

What do you want to know?

What's the kinkiest things you've ever done?

You mean besides the 4 years I was in a lesbian relationship? Then, probably would be fucking Cane with a strap-on.

What do you want to know?

Pic Tuesdays?

Er, well... probably just gonna post saucy found-pics whenever we want now, instead of designating solely for Fridays. Lazy... well, yes. But probably gonna be more consistent. I'm sure y'all REALLY care... :-)

PICTURE REQUESTS!!

Man, has this been a barren wasteland in our blogosphere recently. For a sex-orientated blog, there sure has been a lot of sex NOT happening; actually, that’s not fair to say, it’s just been a very vanilla past couple of months due to a lot of work stress that’s been affecting both our lives significantly... and unfortunately that has bled into the bedroom as well. Not to say there hasn’t been stops at an oasis here and there... but more or less it’s been pretty dry.

I imagine, just as our lives have constant cycles.... big, large, small, and tiny... those cycles trickle down into the bedroom as well. We’re not concerned about it just yet, but it just sucks being dead-fucking tired, day in and day out... so much so the idea of exerting one more ounce of energy doing ANYTHING after getting home from a retardedly long day(s) seems like an unmountable task (pun intended). And we don’t even have kids. I don’t know how parents do it, I really don’t.

So yes, I’ve got a new job at a new firm... but they threw me in the deep end, and I’ve been treading water for weeks now. Meanwhile, Cane is at his wits end, professionally and emotionally, at his current job... but feels trapped. Corporate America really does blow. It looks fun on TV, because everything looks contemporary and is lit-well, and everyone’s really young and attractive and dresses sharp... so NOT what it’s really like.

What all this is, is really one giant excuse as to why we’ve been absentee bloggers lately-- and for too long now. So, we’re going to make it up to you, BIG TIME... and best of all, it’s interactive!

Here’s the deal: we’re now open for PICTURE REQUESTS. Please email us with absolutely anything you want to see-- of, on, in, or about either Cane or myself... together or solo...nothing is off-limits except anything that’s done in the bathroom; not gonna judge... but, you know... “ew”.

And please don’t abuse this or be a douche-bag: we’ll sift through the b.s. ones or the ones that don’t seem genuine. Jackasses.

So, we turn it over to YOU, the readers-- now turned art directors (or maybe ‘porn directors’ is more appropriate)!! Our email address in our profile section, under “contact” or leave a comment. Can’t wait to see what you want to see!

Flattery Will Get You EVERYWHERE

There is a new sex-blog in town (like, right-out-of-the-oven- fresh!!) and I think they deserve a little love & attention... mainly because they're off to a strong start...

Please check out: http://uncommonappetites.blogspot.com

They already have tales of the wife's bisexuality and some choice HNT and nekkid pics! I'm predicting some very torrid and carnal accounts of their past/present/future to come!

As for me... yes, updating has been scarce and I apologize... but my mind is mostly concentrating on finding a job instead of finding myself with my knees over my head. Please be patient and stay with us... I PROMISE I'll make it up to you soon. VERY soon ;-)

me!!!

Savage on Cuckolding

I wouldn't normally repost articles I read on all things sexy... but a recent question in Dan Savage's column caught my attention... and as you read, it'll be obvious why.

Pretty interesting stuff.

My husband of eight years confessed to wanting to watch me with another man. I asked if he meant it. He said yes. I asked if he wanted me to set it up. He said yes. I found a guy, and he agreed to a full STD screening — at my husband's suggestion and our expense — so that we wouldn't have to use condoms.

I was worried about how my husband would feel. But he loved every minute of it — he loved it a little too much.

My husband had sex with me after our "guest" left. I still had our guest's semen inside me. Is my husband gay? Is that what cuckolding is all about? He didn't touch the other guy, but what the fuck? — Spouse Expressing Concern Over Newly Disclosed Sexuality

SAVAGE LOVE"Far from being an indication of homosexuality, your husband's turn-on goes back to the roots of male heterosexual experience," says Christopher Ryan, coauthor of Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality. "Human beings evolved in very intimate groups where sex often involved multiple partners."

Before Ryan walks us through what's so straight about your husband dipping his dick in another man's spunk, SECONDS, let me get this off my chest: Sex at Dawn is the single most important book about human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey unleashed Sexual Behavior in the Human Male on the American public in 1948. Want to understand why men married to supermodels cheat? Why so many marriages are sexless? Why paternity tests often reveal that the "father" isn't? Read Sex at Dawn.

Now back to Ryan:

"Think about it," says Ryan. "Why would women have evolved the capacity for slow-building multiple orgasms while males evolved the orgasmic response of minutemen accompanied by a sudden disappearance of all interest in sex?"

Because — as Ryan and his coauthor Cacilda Jethá lay out in Sex at Dawn — for countless generations, our male and female ancestors, like our closest primate relatives (fuck-mad bonobos), engaged in multipartner sex. Females mated with multiple males, while males — so easily stimulated visually to this day — watched and waited their turn.

"Almost all of us get off on watching other people having sex," says Ryan. "Even if our minds deny it, our bodies respond in many ways, ranging from increased genital blood flow (in both sexes) to stronger male ejaculations."

By inviting another male into your bedroom, SECONDS, your husband — consciously or subconsciously — is inducing what's known as "sperm competition." Watching you have sex with another male made him more excited to have sex with you, not with the other male, and treated him to a more intense orgasm in you, not in the other male.

"So your husband's experience was very heterosexual," says Ryan.

I'll go further: Your husband's experience was the original heterosexual experience.